further update
i hate making these posts even as they’re literally my only recourse for extra help but as the second house sale stalls i feel like i need to just update the last post with what’s happened over the past three months:
- the first house sale stalled for 8 months until the buyer dropped out (i had to pay £550 to £630 every single month in bills that’ve raised in the intervening year that i shouldn’t have to be paying the entire time)
- the second house sale is also stalling but for a shorter (?) amount of time, for whatever mercy that is. i still have to pay the boosted bills as best i can for however long we wait, which so far has been 3 months and is looking to be at least another three
- i have basically had to scrimp, save, beg, and earn about £6050 over the past 11 months that has immediately gone onto bills and this is still with me being owed my £2000 back from my family that i’m yet to be paid back even though i am in desperate need of my own finances back
- my savings are just decimated lmao, i’m doing everything i can to retain about £550 in my account at the end of the month just so i can shell out for the raised storage & council taxincidental things are:
- my phone’s battery died and i couldn’t afford repairs so i had to buy a kit and source a battery myself to fix it which was about £60 (but that’s cheaper than taking it to apple repair so lmao)
- i’m still having to do all this while attempting to save for our eventual move, whenever that is. i’ve sort of…had to make my peace with the fact that i will almost certainly not be able to save enough and will have to just…cross that bridge when we come to it bc i literally cannot spin that plate among everything else
- it’s like 35C and i probably will have to shell out £20 for an air cooler so that’s a fun expensebasically i still need support in making ends meet for however fucking long we’re still here. any help is appreciated, as are reblogs, or just moral support bc i cannot express how tired i am with this and everything else
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